Monday, May 17, 2010

Reading

Thank goodness my parents instilled a love of reading in me when I was a kid. As far back as I remember I have always loved to read. Mom got us all library cards and would take us there on a regular basis to check out books. Didn't matter what I was reading as long as I was reading something. A book, a newspaper, a comic book, anything! I even had the habit of having something at the table to read when I was eating. Car trips for me were spent with my nose in a book, oblivious to my surroundings, which by the way, always seemed to drive my parents crazy. "Put that book down and look around, ya might never get back here again" was always a favorite line they would spout off. I would sigh, look up for a few minutes, then go back to my book. All this got me to thinking the other day about all the magazine subscriptions we had when I was growing up. Mom had her magazines like Good Housekeeping, Better Homes and Gardens and the Ladies Home Journal. Dad had his National Geographic and Flying magazine. The Readers Digest was shared by both. And it was funny with the magazines. I always thought Dads National Geographic magazine was boring. The articles on all the foreign countries held little interest to me. The Flying magazine was basically the same thing each month with a different cover. It always showed some type of airplane in flight with the pilot looking up toward the camera. But strangely, my moms mags provided fascinating reading for me! They almost always had a article about a family member getting sick or being struck with some type of personal tragedy and how the mother rallied at the end to save the family. I read with interest the different cooking methods being discussed and the recipes being shown. I was captivated by the flowers being planted and the gardens being planted. I'm sure that has something to do with my interest in flowers and cooking today. But what really got me to thinking was the ad for Virginia Slims cigarettes that always used to run in those magazines my mother would get. The one where it would always show a modern woman with a smoke in hand and the ad saying " You've come along way baby". Wouldn't that apply to all of us today? I know it would me. From being that little boy that always had his nose in a book to the the man I am today. A boy who's now a father. A boy who now doesn't get to read like he used to. "You've come along way baby". Work has replaced play. Instead of worrying about school and passing that tough class now it's bills and my job. When we are young we can't wait to grow up. Then one day you do and that kid you used to be is gone. Vanished. Just someone that you used to know. "You've come along way baby". Have we? I'm gonna promise myself to start going to the library again. I'm gonna order a couple magazine subscriptions. I'm gonna try to contact that boy I once knew who I haven't seen in so long. I have come along way. And I still have a long way to go.

Saturday, April 17, 2010

For the first time in my life, I live alone. I'm single. Divorced after twenty years of marriage. Before I was married I lived with my parents so this is all taking a little getting used to. Correction, a LOT of getting used to. All my life everything I have ever done was done with someone else in mind. Growing up there were five of us kids. Save some for your sister. Hurry, your brother is waiting to use that. Dad needs you. Mom said you better do that NOW. Then comes the big wedding day. Then things just continue as you've been trained your whole life for. Work a little harder so we can get the bigger house. Don't go there because we can't afford it. I better do this so the spouse won't get angry and so on and so on. Then the kids arrive and you basically surrender the rest of your days to everyone else EXCEPT yourself. Now don't get me wrong. I love my family dearly and wouldn't trade a minute of any of it (well, maybe the physical abuse at the hands of my two older brothers haha) but you understand what I'm saying? Now, my situation is different then anything I have ever known. Its all new territory. The spouse left. The kids are with her during the time that they are in school. My family members are a thousand miles away. So just imagine going from what most of us have done and known our whole lives to being single and alone. For me, some days are scary. Some days are fun. If I want to see a movie, I go see it. If I don't want to attend a certain event, I don't attend. If there's something I really want, I buy it. On the other hand I gotta make sure the bills are being paid cause its just my income. Get the picture? I think our life is like a book and this is a new chapter. Interesting read. I can't wait to see what happens!

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

My thoughts on things

Hello there folks. Welcome to my blog. This is my take on things. Current things, old things, memories of things and sometimes just silly things. If you like what you read here post and share your thoughts. If you don't just surf on over to something else and thanks for visiting. Peace!
Ren